A lesson you learn early on as a "newbie" as foster parents is to be flexible and that things change...that being said we do have one "concrete" fact that we can count on. Who ever comes through our door into our home will be a BOY. We can count on that! It is not that we are playing favorites or trying to "even" out our ratio of boys to girls in the house. It is strictly a licensing issue. Due to our square footage and the rule that a child over the age of 6 years has to share a room with the child of the same gender. Luke is the one with space in his room...so BOY it is!
We are planning to be licensed for a boy ages 0-3 years. We are open to whatever avenue God would direct our hearts. Our hearts are OPEN. Mark and I have done a lot of talking and we are certain we are going to start out this journey doing respite care for other foster parents. It's been many years since we have fostered and we want to get our feet wet so to speak. Right now we are just enjoying the journey. Waiting...waiting...waiting. Waiting for fingerprints to return, background checks to come back, licensing scheduling to open up.
While we are waiting we are preparing our home for the inspection. The various items we need for licensing are being brought down from the attic, cleaned and set up. I need to purchase a crib mattress this week (as you must have proof of a bed for the child(ren) you are being licensed for). Most all of my many totes of clothes in the attic are all girl, but I did save a few things from Luke. I handed down most of his clothing to friends. So there are maybe a couple things I want to get.
I found out this weekend that I will have to replace the crib before we are licensed. I bought our white crib in 2008 and it has drop sides and that is a big no-no now. So we will are living on faith that God will provide the money for a new crib in the month of December. It is one piece of furniture that we must have in order to be licensed. Honestly though...I'm not worried. I know we will get the crib we need and I am excited to see how God might move to meet this new need.
UPDATE: Mark and I have been cleared by FBI fingerprinting and background checks. The last thing we have to do is our interviews and home inspection. It has been mentioned that we will have our license by the end of the month! So much work for one piece of paper!
*Prayer for Bella if you have the chance. Fever, cough, runny nose, bright pink cheeks and eye goop. Sad, sad baby girl :(
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